Sunday, August 19, 2012

how time flies....

I can't believe but it's been 2 years since I posted here. Weird.

So much has changed since then. For starters Miss 9 is now Miss 11 (can you believe it!).  
She is smart, funny, intelligent, challenging, talented, musical, a gymnast and a ballerina all rolled into one. She is a gallon of crazy in a half a gallon cup.  Some days she totally does my head in, like I think most tweens do.

Anyway enough about Miss 11.

One thing you might notice in that paragraph that she is not, is an ice skater.... yep that's right.  So not long after my last post Miss 9 broke her arm.  It was a really nasty break and she was in plaster for 8 weeks.  It took her a long time to get back her confidence, and, it was around that time that a whole heap of nastiness started happening at the rink.  You know, one mum who just thinks the own the place spurs on their kids until it becomes an all out cat fight,.  Yup, I went to this one event that I was invited to where the "ex president" of the skating club barked condescendingly at the host "I know who she is" when the host tried to introduce me.  It was, put quite simply, one of those defining moments in my life - when I realised that people really do not grow out of high school bitchiness.  The skating rink became an increasingly toxic environment to be around.  And not good for a child at all.

In the end we tried switching to another club, but as luck would have it, some of the other members had also defected to that club, and we still had the "clique" parents who would belittle and speak down to anyone other than their children.  The backstabbing was immeasurable and really, it was just.not.worth.it.

The straw that broke the camels' back was when Miss 9 skated her absolute best performance, and still placed last, despite others in her division having fallen.  I guess that's the problem, it's such a subjective sport.

In any case, she has found her feet and has dived head first into Gymnastics again (which she had not done in some time prior to breaking her arm) and is loving it.  She does Artistic Gymnastics and Tumbling and it's a whole lot of fun for her to be doing.  She has also taken a more enthusiastic leap into dancing - both Jazz and Ballet.

Next year she will probably need to make a decision on what she wants to concentrate on though, because like with any sport, both are requiring an increasing number of hours per week.

Miss 2 is now 4 years old.  She is a gregarious girl with a lovely demeanour (most of the time LOL). She is such a personality and has the funniest sayings.  I am constantly on facebook commenting about stuff she's said that makes me laugh!

Just this past week we enrolled her into Prep.  Prep is the first year of schooling where we live and the school which Miss 11 goes to is quite sought after, so we were concerned we would not get in.  Luckily for us, she got in so our girls will attend the same school for one year (first and last).  Both girls are really looking forward to that.

So, apart from a hideous bout of the flu that has been going through the household, life is pretty good here.

I hope to take the time to write updates a little more often now I can remember the password to my blogger account PMSL!

Catchya later

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

holy mc-moly!

So that big comp that I've been mentioning that Miss 9 is supposed to be doing next month, is $110 per entry.  She has both an artistic and a singles program, so that would make $220 in entry fees.

Since my significant other gets paid monthly, and the due date for the entries is this coming Monday (the day before he gets paid!) it's safe to say that she isn't going to be competing in that competition.  We could enter her late, but with a double entry fee ($220 per entry, so $440 total) it's just not going to happen.

To add salt to the wound, she can't even pay for it herself even if she wanted to - that's because over the weekend we were burgled.

Amongst other things, they stole Miss 9's wallet, with all her birthday money in it, and both girls money boxes :(

Stinkers :(

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

She passed

Yes she did. 
She kicked ass. 
She rocked. 

Miss 9 officially passed her Preliminary Skating Test last week.  I was so incredibly proud - I cried like a big baby.  I couldn't hold back the tears.  The look of joy on her face was just priceless - honestly you could see how proud she was of herself.  She kept saying "I can't believe I passed" like it was all a dream - but it wasn't!

So, now I can concentrate on finishing off her costumes for the next big Competition, which is end of this month I think (or maybe it's beginning of next month), it's during school holidays in any case.

I can't wait to see her concentrate on something other than the god-forsaken pattern she needed to do to pass this test!

Monday, May 31, 2010

Cue the Nerves

Ok so I'm driving Miss 9 home from school today and she says "am I going to skating tonight?"

I've been sick, as has Miss 2 for over a week.  The weather has really turned cold and it's playing havoc with her asthma, I've got tonsillitis and some wicked virus..... so I try to diplomatically talk her out of it.

"well, how about we give it a miss.  It's cold, I'm not well" blah blah blah... and then she says.....

"oh I'm doing my test on Thursday"

EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEKKK!!!

I literally shrieked !! I knew I had put in the forms, but I had forgotten how long ago it was, and that the test date was looming.

You see, this is the test that she failed in November.  She is re-sitting on Thursday evening.  While I'm confident she'll do her best, I'm not sure whether she will pass.  This is her first step into the "big pond" of figure skating so to speak. She'll be at the very bottom of that pond, but she'll be IN the pond.

That means more money, more expensive entry costs for competitions (like one big one coming up next month, or is it the month after??).  Everything is BIGGER and BETTER once you make it into the big pond.  It's the stepping stone towards representing at State Championships and Nationals.

My wallet (and bank balance) need to be resuscitated, I'm sure they are in cardiac arrest just at the mere thought of the prospective costs involved with being a skater at this level.

Right-o then... best I get back to the more important things like taking up the hems on jeans and bedazzling costumes for the next skating competition!

Wish Miss 9 luck for Thursday if you happen to remember!

Sunday, May 16, 2010

Happy Birthday Miss 9!

Well, it had to happen soon enough... Miss 8 turned 9 !! So that means she is now fondly known as Miss 9. 

I think last year it was great being 8 (or so she reckoned) and this year it will be fine being 9! Who makes up these silly sayings? Who is it going to be fine for? Certainly not for me.

I still remember the day I was in labour like it was only yesterday.  I woke at around 4am with contractions which were strong enough to wake me from a deep sleep.  I remember thinking "I can't be having the baby today".   I would be 2 weeks overdue on the following day, and had an antenatal appointment that next morning - where it was discussed I would be induced if labour did not spontaneously occur.  

Being that I wanted everything just so, I had arranged an appointment for getting my hair dyed and cut.  I arrived at the hairdressers, with contractions around 5.5 minutes apart, and I remember my ever-so-gay hairdressers saying to me "your waters better not break on our bloody new white sofa" LOL.  Classic! 

I'd been primped and preened to within an inch of my life - my eyebrows and bikini line was waxed later in the day, all while I was wincing during contractions.  

I made it to hospital about 7:30pm that night.  I knew it was time to go when it hurt me to laugh - I was trying to make light of it, and we were at my mum and dads for dinner but I couldn't eat, and with every laugh, also came a punishing contraction!!  When I left in the car, my contractions were 2.5 - 3 minutes apart. I felt every damned bump in the road, even though for the most part, we were driving on the motorway.

Of course, when I arrived at the hospital and was admitted to the birth suite, my contractions all but stopped.  She has always been a stubborn child - not one to work by others rules.
She wasn't born until 8:35am the next morning! A whopping 28 hour labour.....  

I remember how teensy tiny she was. 6lbs 10oz.  She was all grey and alien looking - she had been stuck in the birth canal and finally after several hours of pushing, was extracted with the help of a ventouse.  Her head was cone shaped.  I was so damned tired that I fell asleep shortly after she was born, and I don't remember much past that. 

Anyway, Happy Birthday Miss 9!  I know you had a fantastic day today, and I look forward to seeing you blossom this year, as you do every year.

Thursday, May 13, 2010

sheesh

Well, it's been some time (okay, I admit, it's been a L-O-N-G time) between posts.

So much has been happening so I'll try and give you a quick run-down.  

I was very fortunate to be involved in the setting up of an Op Shop late last year.  It opened it's doors in August and we have been so blessed with many wonderful donations, and regular customers.  Business is booming - so much so that we had to expand into part of the shop next to us ... but that's a whole other post in itself!

Little Miss turned 2 ... Oh my goodness! Two! 2 is that age that someone just flicks the switch and they turn from fun to frightful!  I am very much hoping that the 2 year old behaviour only lasts about 3 or 4 weeks more (that's quite enough I think)... but the realist in me knows this is unlikely.

Miss 8 is due to turn 9 on Sunday.  She has had a wonderful time since I last blogged.  Although, I might add she did also have a bit of a nightmare time just around November, when she took a test for skating that she didn't pass.  She was devestated.  Coach wanted her to re-sit the test in December, but we actually have pushed it out this far.  So she will be doing the test again next month.  Fingers Crossed she passes with flying colours this time.

She happened to get the opportunity to go to Bali just recently.  Without me! Yes, I let her go overseas on her own without her mum & dad.   No, she really wasn't on her own, she was with her great Aunt & Uncle.  Of course she had a wonderful time, but in true 8 yr old fashion, when asked what the best part of Bali was on her return, she answers "the pool at the hotel"... sheesh I could have let you just go to the pool here if I knew that was going to be the highlight of your trip!     With lots of probing however, I did find out that of course she didn't mean the pool was the best bit - it was patting a 12 month old tiger cub!! {I was so jealous just hearing that}   But she did make some wonderful friends at the pool, and got some email addresses, so no doubt she will be hassling me with lots and lots of requests to use the computer so she can email her friends.

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Ice Skates are here!!

Miss 8's new ice skates finally arrived from Canada last week, after waiting since 17 June!!

I was so thrilled on Friday when she had her first lesson in about 3 months. She listened beautifully. She tried everything that was asked of her and she was listening attentively. I was really pleased, since her attention span can be either fantastic or completely goldfish-like.

I'm hoping that soon she'll be able to get a programme done, so I can make her a beautiful costume. It's been so long since she did any competitions, I really miss it.